To the one that will love her next,

I know it’s weird for me to write this to you but I’ve learned some things in my time with her and I want to share them with you because you are who she loves now.

First and foremost, she’s a cuddler. All the time, in any way she can. Whether she be suffocating you or simply have her leg over yours. Follow her lead. Lay on her chest when she asks you to and be the big spoon when she needs it. When she asks for a back scratch do it on the skin, not over the shirt.

She hates tea. Couldnt tell you why but she does. If she’s drinking coke now, get her some sprite and keep it as healthy as possible. She’s not picky but she never decides where to eat.

Make sure she detangles her hair every once in a while and notice when the curls start to look bouncier. Its the little things that will make her eyes light up. Notice everything.

She’s a great listener, advice giver, and supporter. Everything you do she’ll be right behind pushing forward. Make sure you do the same. Remind her money comes and goes, college will pass, her future is bright and her ass will always be fat. She remembers EVERYTHING. Don’t plan on getting away with too much.

Ask her about cheer.. watch her eyes light up as she remembers all her accomplishments. Then watch steam blow out of her ears when she talks about her present cheer team. No matter what she says, she loves it and it’s a part of who she is.

Kiss her forehead. All the time. Any chance you get. She acts like she doesnt care but its her favorite. If you drink, wash your mouth before you kiss her. The smell of alcohol reminds her of her father. Buy her books. Indulge her hunger for knowledge.

Ask about her childhood, let her ramble endlessly about all the thing that made her who she is. Talk to her mom. Invite her over.

She’s a little bit of a hot head but know that she’ll defend you in a heartbeat. She does t let things go easily and she was always have the last word.

Be good to Jackson. Anytime you talk to him she’ll respond in his voice and its the most adorable thing in the world.

There are reasons she distant at times. It’s not your fault. Give her space and time and she’ll come around. Be there. Be present. She gets anxious easily and over thinks everything. Calm her nerves. Reassure her.

Lastly, I’m sorry. I’m sorry you never got to put this advice to good use. She’s the best thing that ever happened to me and I have no intention of losing her. I’ll treasure every moment we get together. Good or bad. I’m sorry no one else on this earth will get to experience life with her. That’s my blessing.

Sincerely,

The Love of her Life